Wednesday, April 4, 2018

Imani McGee-Stafford Shares the Spilled Contents of her Broken Heart


NOTES IN THE KEY OF HEARTBREAK

We Can Only Love Others as Well as We Love Ourselves

AUSTIN, TEXAS - WNBA Star, Poet, Writer and Mental Health Advocate, Imani McGee-Stafford, adds published author to her burgeoning brand. Notes in The Key of Heartbreak, a book of poems by the WNBA’s Atlanta Dream center standout, is the next chapter in McGee-Stafford’s remarkable journey towards becoming a true renaissance woman.

“We are taught to search for love outside ourselves from a young age. We watch fairytales and romanticize relationships in search of the elusive ‘happily ever after’,” McGee-Stafford writes. “However, growing up, many of us don’t experience healthy, loving relationships so, we are sent into the world stumbling through heartbreaks, simply trying to do our best.”

As a child, McGee-Stafford was molested by a family member and raised in an abusive and negligent environment, spending many of her teen years depressed and suicidal. In 2012, she earned a full scholarship to the University of Texas at Austin, where she eventually received the support and mental health services she long needed--support that also ultimately equipped her with enough courage to share her story. “Some of us never do the work to make ourselves whole even though we all know that none of us can give what we don’t have,” said McGee-Stafford, who champions mental health through her speeches in corporations, organizations, and schools around the country.

Seeking the “happily ever after” so many long for, McGee-Stafford met her college sweetheart at age 17. By age 20 they’d gotten married. And by age 23, they were divorced. While McGee-Stafford struggled to reach her potential as a basketball player in an elite program at Texas, she says the lessons of love were perhaps her greatest challenge. “Did we love each other because it looked and felt good?” writes McGee-Stafford, who’s entering her third season in the WNBA. “Or, did we love each other because it’s easier to ignore yourself when someone is standing next to you?”

The collection of poems taps into the tapestry of McGee-Stafford’s pain and experiences, and includes favorites like “Dad Says,” “I Keep Praying That You’ll Love Me,” “It Takes A Special Kind of Woman To Walk Away,” “I’m Deleting Your Pictures Off Social Media Because That’s What People Do In Breakups,” and “I Wonder What You Say About Me When They Ask About Us.”

And the beat goes on

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Gonzaga will stay in the WCC.

College team news:

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What Mississippi State fans have to look forward to next season.

Yale posted the most wins in program history this year.

College player news:

Western Kentucky's Tashia Brown is training for a possible pro career.

Northern Colorado's Ali Meyer has overcome plenty of adversity.

The parents of the NCCU players whose scholarships weren't renewed plan to file a lawsuit.

College coach news:

Ole Miss has hired Yolett McPhee-McCuin as its next head coach.

Melissa Kolbe has followed Michelle Clark-Heard to Cincinnati and will be assistant coach there.

Ashland associate head coach Kari Pickens has been elevated to head coach.

Bowling Green has hit a home run by hiring Robyn Fralick.

NAIA news:

The NAIA will vote on the number of divisions they'll have.

Herstory of the game:

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WNBA news:

League coaches and GMs tab A'ja Wilson as the first pick in the draft.

WNBA free agency winners and losers.

USA Basketball news:

U17 coaches Vanessa Nygaard, Carla Berube and Steve Gomez will return to lead the team this summer.

Erica McCall: learning more about life overseas

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Tuesday, April 3, 2018

Canada, Billings make their marks on UCLA’s all-time lists

The records left by the two UCLA greats.

Settling down

The game:

The more women's sports are covered, the more popular they will be.

Final Four:

The Final Four caused a blessed hangover.

Meet Arike Ogunbowale.

Rob Knox's Final Four retrospective.

Told ya:

I mentioned this on twitter twice this season and got a bit of resistance both times, but ESPN agrees with me: playing in the AAC hurts UConn in the postseason.

College team news:

The Irish are on the cover of Sports Illustrated.

Notre Dame's 2001 championship team finally has company.

Reality bites UConn and coach Geno Auriemma.

College player news:

South Carolina's Alexis Jennings opted to stay and not enter the draft, as did Bianca Cuevas-Moore.

At least seven of the NCCU scholarships revoked last week will be reinstated.

Three are transferring from Vanderbilt.

Five are leaving Colorado State.

It's being reported that Sierra Campisano is transferring from Oregon.

Three are leaving Montana State.

College coach news:

Robyn Fralick is the new coach at Bowling Green. Her record at Ashland is 104-3.

The new coach at UIC is Tasha Pointer.

Gardner-Webb coach Rick Reeves is retiring.

WNBA news:

Victoria Vivians has her sights set on the draft.

Chicago Sky draft preview.

Seattle Storm draft preview.

Elizabeth Williams has signed a multi-year contract extension with the Atlanta Dream.

Monday, April 2, 2018

The day after

Final Four:

Yes, it was the best ever.

Columbus garnered praise for its hosting job.

Family for all teams, in pictures.

Arike Ogunbowale put an unforgettable stamp on the Final Four.

Who is Ogunbowale?

From Nebraska to Notre Dame, Jessica Shepard saw her title dreams come true.

Notre Dame arrived home to a celebration today.

Today's Final Four is a far cry from that of yesteryear.

College team news:

What to expect from Mississippi State next season.

The Bulldogs got a warm welcome home today.

Mississippi State looks to be resilient after a second straight title loss.

The Bulldogs had an impact on fans.

It's not too early for Notre Dame fans to dream about next year.

Idaho State is the most-improved field goal shooting team of the year.

College player news:

Azura Stevens will skip her final year at UConn to enter the WNBA draft.

Texas A&M's Anriel Howard may transfer.

Forgot to post this the other day: Roshunda Johnson balances motherhood and being a student-athlete.

College coach news:

Muffet McGraw was noncommittal when asked if Notre Dame would visit the White House, if invited.

Oklahoma coach Sherri Coale on women's basketball: "It’s a mistake to try to be like the men."

New UMaine men's assistant coach Edniesha Curry isn't motivated by her trailblazing status.

Vermont is investigating the verbal conduct of coach Chris Day.

USA Today coaches poll:

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WNBA news:

The W breaks down team needs 10 days before the draft.

Aces preview.

Fever preview.